欢迎来到我这个小小宇宙

这个宇宙将包含了我的眼,鼻,耳,舌 和 触碰的,也就是我的人生经历,有的没的。这个宇宙有了我的心声,一时冲动的解放与对你的思念。。。

Sunday, July 28, 2013

母爱

消失已旧的,也知何时,不知不觉,从记忆中被埋没的一份爱,母爱!

对妈妈的印象,不深也不算浅。但对于这份母爱,也渐渐地陌生了!却用父爱来替代母爱,也认为理所当然,毫无疑问的,顺义自然的!所以,从不觉得,缺乏母爱!

当遇见了她,勾起了我记忆中,埋没已久的。原来,我没缺乏母爱,却遗忘了这一份感动!母爱的感动!

在她身上,看到了自己。原来,自己在扮演着,很努力的,是来弥补失去已久的这一份感动!她,让我心动了,感动了。



新的一页

又暂停了一阵,也许在这前阵子,是在摸索下一页吧!

前阵子,所经历的,切实有它存在的缘由!渐渐的,越鲜明了。

看到,是自己的撞伤!所害怕的,担忧的,转变成抗拒,绝不的,不要的。这一切,只是害怕失望!失望,因为纯粹得不到自己所想要的,要求的, 期待的,期望的。

对你那不占有的爱,不仅让我无私学会了去爱。更重要的,让我更勇敢的去爱和寻找爱。也打开了我的心,不在害怕受伤,失望,遗忘,得不到爱!因为,我的身,心,灵,填补了满满的爱!得到的,却是无限的爱!也领悟到,痛苦是一个让我们成长的机会!

没有了恐惧,得不到爱的恐惧,也不害怕失望,也没了期望!爱了,就算了。不求回报。无限的去爱和被爱,感恩的心态,对于发生的,没发生,很知足的,很富足的!

也开阔了另一页,认识了另一个他和她!


Monday, January 28, 2013

Matter of Choice

Sometimes we might feel that God is making fun of us, giving us hope and take it away. If we start complaining how unfair we have been treated or why this is happening to us, this will only create more sorrow and suffering. Take it as it is a homework that we need to do. Obstacle and challenges in life, may guide us to enlightenment or make our life miserable. Is the matter of choice and it's all depend on us. If we see the obstacle and challenges are the OPPORTUNITY to growth (成长的机会), it will be it. If we see it as unfair treatment or making fun of us, it will be it. Only the teaching or dharma that we have learnt or read or heard will guide us and teach us to be our own teacher. At the end, we need to walk through the path with our own feet with faith and believe. Universe will take care of us.

The Moment

When the moment you are sitting in front of the television, i might be reading a book on the sofa and he might be still working late in the office and she might be having steamboat as her dinner. 

When the moment you are enjoying your show, when i am enjoying my reading, he is stress up with his work and she is enjoying her dinner. So many different things are happening at the same time. You may not see it, i am not aware of it, he may not notice it and she may not realize it. But, things still keep happening.

When the moment we are celebrating birth, there is death. Whether you like it or not, whether is your choice, whether you willing or reluctant, things happen and keep changing.

What life has taught us? Things keep changing. Things are impermanent. Life is so short. The minute we saw birth, the next minute we saw death or it happens at the same time perhaps.

We may not see it, hear it and feel it, but it doesn't mean it is not happening, it is not changing. Just that we are not aware of it.

Life is too short to be upset about or worry. If we aware of how impermanent this life is, how short this life is, how fragile this life is, what else to ask for?

Be grateful and thankful of being alive at this present moment, not forgetting to let go the pass and without expecting that there will be a better day tomorrow. Live at the present moment and be happy as it is.

感恩

当你在享受美食,不要忘了,地球的某个角落,有人在挨饿,没得吃。要感恩!

当你在暖暖的被窝里正要入睡,不要忘了,地球的某个角落,有人在失眠。 也有人连找个地方睡也成问题。要感恩!

当你有手有脚,可以自由活动,不要忘了,这个世界,没手没脚,行动不便的人的存在。要感恩!


没听到,没看到,没说到,并不代表不存在!


人是很善忘的,每当看到可怜的,悲惨的,才懂得惜福。过了,忘了,又开始抱怨!看到比自己好的,就会比较,觉得自己很可怜,不懂得知足!


要感恩啊!!!